I was ready "to throw in the towel". Jenny & I have been married for 51.5 years. after the disastrous 3rd house that we owned in SC, I said that we would never own another house again. for the next 5 years we rented. we moved 6 times in 5 years. finally, last november, when our landlord refused to fix a hole in the driveway caused by lightning, I gave up. I can't live in an unsafe house. at 71 we got a 30-yr. VA loan and we bought our 4th house.
Jenny and I are in our "4th quarter". we just want to live out our last quarter in peace. when BCE told us that they were dropping the code violation, I gave up. "you can't fight city hall." then, 24 hours later, I got back into the fray--not because of water in the crawl space, but because we were getting jerked around--time to play hardball (I don't like being jerked around). had "they" decided not to issue the building code violation, then I was prepared to go to the newspaper--just like I did in SC.
I don't know how long that we'll be here--if we're lucky and our health holds out, etc., maybe 10 years--maybe not. sometimes we have to remind ourselves that we're in the 4th quarter and that our "treasure" isn't in a house.
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Same problem here.
We just wanted a decent house where we could retire and live quietly.
That's what we thought we were buying.
We didn't want stress; we didn't want a fight.
But the builder cut way too many corners.
Now no choice but to fight. Sigh. Emotional toll is great.
I wonder if our new house will even last 10 years.
https://storieswithnobooks.com/2018/12/26/pulte-new-home-nightmare/
We are retired also, and just wanted to quietly enjoy the remaining years of our lives. Unfortunately, we recently bought a new home in
a Del Webb Community where Pulte is the builder (they bought Del Webb back in 2001). Now, rather than having a nice, quiet retirement--we are watching out new house fall apart around us. Of course, we have been told (repeatedly) that this is all just "normal" settling. It is not! We have lived in many places over the years, and we know that this is not normal. It is a nightmare. We have had a structural engineer out here several times already. My story is currently at: https://storieswithnobooks.com/2018/12/26/pulte-new-home-nightmare/
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